Developing A Mindset For Success – So You Can Be Who You Desire To Be

Attitude and Desire

You have decided now is the time to move forward with developing a mindset for success.  Let’s first talk about attitude and what it has to do with your overall chances of being successful. Having a positive outlook can be a huge help for a variety of reasons. Let’s take a closer look at how positivity can help you reach your goals and work for permanent change.

Having the right attitude helps you stay motivated. Being successful takes work, and that’s just more fun when you’re enjoying what you’re doing. While not every task, and everything that needs to be taken care of, will be your favorite task, having a positive attitude about it will help.

Start by becoming more aware of your moods and outlooks as you go about your day. Make an effort to be grateful and find the good side of things. Over time your positivity will increase, and it will help you stay on track and stay motivated.  Attitude Matters

Having a good attitude helps you overcome hurdles. It’s easy to get discouraged when things don’t go your way or fall through. We all face setbacks. We all make mistakes. How we deal with them is what set’s successful people apart from the rest. Work on your positivity and find a lesson in everything that happens. You’ll come out on the other side stronger and better than before.

Having the right attitude helps you do better work. Think back on the last time you had fun working on a project. It was much easier to get into the flow and time flew by. You enjoyed yourself, and that showed in your work. We tend to work so much better when we’re in a good mood.

It’s also easier to focus on work efficiently when you like what you’re doing. In fact, when you find that groove and that perfect project, it doesn’t feel like work at all. That’s the kind of state you want to work in most of the time. 

To make all that happen, you should make an effort to work on positivity. Check your attitude and find the joy in everything you do. Keeping a journal can help, it makes you focus your thoughts. You can look back and see what of the things you did worked and helped you make progress. Another powerful tip is to create a journal or file of encouragement. Fill it with positive images and motivational quotes. Include proof of your accomplishments and any recommendations and testimonials you receive. Browse through the journal or file any time you need an extra boost of positivity.

Do You Know What Being Successful Means To You?

We want to be successful. We want to live meaningful and fulfilling lives and have the material and financial means to do so. It’s part of our human nature to want to be successful. Mindset For SuccessBut what exactly does this mean? How do you know if you’re successful, on your way to success, or failing? How do you know when you’ve become successful and can start to relax and enjoy what you’ve worked so hard to accomplish?  What does developing a mindset for success really mean?

To answer all of these questions, you have to first define what being successful means to you. There is no right or wrong answer. It is different for every one of us. For some, it means getting a coveted position at work. Someone else may define success as being able to build their dream house. Another person may define success a being able to travel the world. Another person will measure it in dollars in the savings account or total net worth.

Success will also mean something different in different areas of your life. Think of success in terms of work, relationships, and health for example. To be successful at work and to be successful in your marriage, for example, can be two entirely different things. In some cases, they may even contradict each other. To do well at work and be considered for a promotion, you may have to be willing to put in long hours and bring home files to work on at night or in the evening. The same holds true when you’re building your own business. These extended working hours can cause tension in a relationship if your significant other starts to feel neglected or they have to take on too many responsibilities at home.

In short, there’s a lot to consider and think about when it comes to success. At the same time, it’s essential that you do this thinking and define what it means to you to be successful, in all areas of your life. Don’t let this overwhelm you. You don’t have to work on everything all at once, and you don’t have to reach your long-term goals in a matter of weeks. You can’t. But you need to know where you want to be heading so you can start to make and measure progress.

You can’t set goals for yourself if you don’t know what success means. Start by defining your very own version of success and then set some goals and milestones for yourself based on your definition of success.

People You Spend Time With Influence Your Future Success

There’s this idea floating around that the five people you spend the most time with will determine how successful you are. I did a little digging and traced it down to a quote by Jim Rohn, an entrepreneur, and motivational speaker. His exact quote was “You’re the average of the five people you spend most of your time with.”

While I don’t think that the influence and math are quite that simple, there is something to this whole idea that the people you spend time with influence your level of success. Relationships MatterThe important conclusion to draw from this is that it’s important to pay attention to who you spend time with and surround yourself with successful people as much as possible.   Remember, You are one of the persons you will be spending most of your time with. 

You know the inverse is true. When a kid falls in with the “wrong” or “bad” crowd at school, grades drop, and behavior changes for the worse. The opposite is true too. If your child has friends who are working hard and doing well in school, he or she will be more likely also to do well. The same is true when it comes to our own lives and the areas we want to succeed in.

Let’s say your dream is to own a small restaurant on the main street and make a comfortable living cooking amazing locally sourced food for your community. Wouldn’t it make sense to make friends with other local business owners, chefs, and even boutique farmers in your area? How about having a group of friends across the county who are running the same type of restaurants?

When you surround yourself with other people who are already successful in what you want to do, you can tap into their vast experience and hopefully avoid making some of the mistakes they’ve made. Think of them as your mentors who will help you make progress faster. Something as simple as knowing who to talk to about your business license can save you days of time and aggravation.

The people you surround yourself with don’t even have to be very successful at what you want to do. There’s a lot of value in having people around you who are on the same journey. You can mastermind and exchange ideas. You can bounce ideas off each other, and most importantly, you can encourage each other to keep pushing through the tough times and celebrate the small successes.

Start by looking for like-minded people. Find a few who are either working towards the same goal or who have already accomplished them and can play the role of a mentor or guide. Building a network like that can become an invaluable asset on your road to success.

Ten Skills For Developing A Mindset For Success

Success Skills BasicsWhen it comes to success, there are a few basics skills you should not only have, but work on improving and mastering over time. They will greatly increase your chances of reaching your goals and making great things happen. Let’s quickly run through the list.

Success Skill # 1 Goal Setting

Your goals are your roadmap and compass. Without a goal, it’s hard to know what you should be working on or when you’ve succeeded. Always start by setting a well-defined goal and if possible put a deadline on it.

Success Skill # 2 Decision Making

A big part of being successful is making the right decisions. What path should you take, what should you work on next. Those are important choices that influence all aspects of your life. Get comfortable making decisions and learn what you can do to pick the right one more often than not. Practice and experience are great teachers here.

Success Skill # 3 Time Management

Time is our most limited resource. To make the most of if we have to get good at prioritization. That’s really what time management is all about. It’s deciding what’s most important and what will have the biggest impact. Then you figure out how to make it happen in the most time efficient manner.

Success Skill # 4 Organization

If you’re unorganized, it’s hard to figure out what needs to happen next. It’s also a huge time waster to look around for bits and pieces. Make getting and staying organized a priority, and you’ll be amazed at how much more you can get done.

Success Skill # 5 Focus

Our world is full of distractions. Being able to tune everything else out and work on one task at a time is important. It’s what focus is all about.

Success Skill # 6 Discipline 

Discipline has become a bit of a bad word. What this skill is really about is persistence. You have to work towards your success goals on a regular basis. Do something to move you forward every day if possible.

Success Skill # 7 Effective Communication

We work with other people. We deal with co-workers, customers, friends and family members. Being able to communicate effectively (both when speaking and in writing) helps us work better together and more efficiently. Clear communication also prevents misunderstandings, which can be a drain on time and energy.

Success Skill # 8 Networking

Success will come much faster if you’re able to leverage other people around you. Network so you have a group of people you can ask for feedback, advice, and support. They can help you avoid mistakes and get you in touch with others who can help you along the way.

Success Skill # 9 Positivity

Staying positive seems like such an ethereal concept, but being able to keep up a good attitude has a big impact on your overall success and quality of life.
You’ll have more fun and stay more motivated when you can tap into positivity. Look for the good in anything that happens along your success journey.

Success Skill # 10 Patience

Last but not least, you need to embrace the idea of infinite patience. Success doesn’t happen overnight. You have to be in this for the long run. Learn to be patient and celebrate your little successes along the way.  When we are infinitely patient it is because we know with a quiet sense of certainty what the outcome already is.

Develop A Mindset For Success

Here is to your developing a mindset for success and having all your wishes fulfilled.  Be sure to engage a dialogue with me through the comment section below.  I look forward to reading about your experiences, struggles, and success!

 

2 thoughts on “Developing A Mindset For Success – So You Can Be Who You Desire To Be

  1. I love this and think you ‘hit the nail on the head’ as it were. Patience is key, along with determination. Almost every successful person has failed along the way but they have managed to push through that failure and keep going. Thank you for sharing.

    • Thank you Catherine! Your comment reminded me of something I learned about success. Edison was asked what it felt like to fail a 1,000 times trying to invent the lightbulb, to which he replied “I have not failed 1,000 times, I simply found 1,000 ways that did not work.” Perspective is important. So, if I am going to have to experience unfavorable results as part of the journey… which is inevitable… I would just like to fail faster!

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